My Take On Love

So, I know Valentines Day just passed what? 2 days ago? oh whatever. And I felt it was necessary to post MY take on love and relationships. This is similar to an essay I had to do in school. {Most. Painful. Thing. Ever.}

Okay, so being single is depressing right? Not being able to hold someone, or tell them what's wrong, or- I'll just stop before I make you really depressed.
But being single isn't so bad. Single is not a status. It's a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others. 

Now on relationships:
A relationship is basically when you are with someone and you are happy. I mean, really and genuinely happy.


Stereotypes On Relationships:
1. Many people believe that a relationship will be a fairy-tale ending.
2. It normally isn't.
3. Someone,whether it be you or your partner,usually gets hurt in some shape or form.
4. Someone might be used/cheated on.
5. There is only one thing to say about the hurt in relationships:
IT FADES AWAY


My Take On Breakups:
Let's say: Your boyfriend/girlfriend has broken up with you and you're heartbroken. If I was friends with you; all I would say is: It'll be fine. When in truth, it probably won't. Unless You Believe It Will. If you don't stay positive, you will suffer.
I bet it would be the case of: {For girls that is}: Boy meets Girl. Boy breaks Girl's heart. Girl suffers.
Or
He had it all...He had my heart until I went wrong and he tore it apart,  kind of scenario.

My Take On Love:
Love: IT NEVER STOPS


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their hearts are actually breaking because maybe they were a second choice.
they smile and nod when asked if they we’re okay because it’d take too long to try and explain to others what’s going on right now.
they are madly in love with a boy, the one who has a girlfriend or the one who never loved you back in the first place.
they blink back their tears to conceal their pain.
we know that you secretly cry yourself to sleep. when you’re left alone in the dark at night their are a thousand things going through you’re mind and their all things you could have said that would have made a difference.

when you bite your lip you’re just holding back so many memories because revisiting them would devastate the progress of letting them go.

My Take On Bisexuality or Being Gay

It is very common for girls to kiss or make out with other girls at parties and such. Does this mean you are bi? no
Does this mean your gay? no
It is a common misconception among people.

If you believe that you are bi, you must have two certain elements. If you do not have these elements, then you are not bi or gay:

1)  Physical Attraction: I know that anyone can go out and see a hot girl and recognize it. But if you are gay or bi, you would want a real physical relationship, sexually, with the same sex as well as the opposite sex.
2) Emotional Attraction: Along with the Physical Attraction. you must have the Emotional Attraction as well. Being gay or bi is NOT about just being physical with the same sex. The Emotional Attraction is all about being in a relationship and not just having some fling. A relationship is important,no matter the gender.


I know your parents might say:
"It's just a phase."
"Oh, sweetie. It's just a phase, it'll pass soon."  Because most of the time, it is just a phase.
It is rare that I have found an actual bisexual. One who can see him/herself with a man as well as a woman. They see them equally.

Well, that's basically all. I just gave you a short summary of bisexuality and being gay, I guess.

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i’ll be a writer. i don’t write to be read. i don’t write for someone to listen to me read it out loud. i write to get whatever i’m thinking of off my mind. i write to let all my secrets go.
i’ll be a photographer. i like taking pictures. not of myself. i’m not beautiful. i want to spend my life finding the things that are and capturing them forever in a picture.
i’ll be a chef. i want to be able to take the simplest of ingredients and make something out of them. no recipes.
one day i’ll be able to look in the mirror and see someone wonderful. someone beautiful. not one flaw.
what will you be?

I Want someone to play pretend with me

i want someone to build tents with.
i want someone to play hide and seek with.
someone with a great laugh cause’ i laugh all the time.
someone who has a sense of humor.
someone who speaks the truth even if their voice shakes.
someone who will never lie to me.
someone to make me feel beautiful.
someone to make me feel, wanted.
i had that once, i want to know if you remember the things you told me. i want to know if you remember when you told me everything. i want to know if you remember running up my phone bill texting you nonstop.
i want to know if you have forgotten me or not.